The Assignment: When Gratitude Confirms Your Purpose

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I’m writing this with tears in my eyes—the good kind.
The kind of tears that only come when you realize that you’re not just working… you’re walking in your assignment.

This week, something cracked open in me. A client sent me a heartfelt video, expressing how my mentorship helped her fall in love with herself again. She’s entering a new era of feeling confident, prioritized, and empowered—she now feels worthy enough to advocate for her son. And all I could do was cry.

Not out of pride.
Not out of ego.
But because I’m so deeply, overwhelmingly grateful.


I Didn’t Know This Was Ministry

When I was a little girl, my childhood pastor told me I would grow up and minister to people. I remember thinking, “That’s wild. I’m not gonna be a preacher.” I thought ministry meant pulpits and sermons, and that just didn’t feel like me.

But now I get it.

I understand that ministry can look like mentorship.
That healing can come through holding space.
That purpose isn’t always loud—it’s felt.

I don’t just coach women. I walk beside them as they remember who they are. And in the process, I remember who I am too.

I’ve Learned Just As Much As I’ve Given

People often thank me for guiding them—but they don’t realize how much they teach me in return.

Mentoring women all over the world, has taught me patience, surrender, and softness. It’s shown me that being “poised and pretty” isn’t just apart of my brand—it’s a spiritual practice. I’ve learned that love is louder than fear. That gentleness heals deeper than force. And that we’re all just looking for someone to remind us that we matter.

This Is Bigger Than Me

I’ve always wanted to be the kind of woman who could buy her sisters plane tickets, pay off her car in full, bless a waitress with a $300 tip just because. Not out of performance—but from overflow.

And this week, after launching Poised & Pretty Fridays, I didn’t just receive clicks or sales—I received confirmation. That I’m on the right path. That showing up authentically is enough. That this is the assignment.

This Is My Altar

I realize now…
I’m not just building a business.
I’m building a space where women are safe to rise.
Where they can be soft, powerful, loved, and worthy.

This is my ministry.
This is my mission.
And I say yes to it—every single day.

Affirmations to Close:

“I don’t chase platforms—I build altars.
I don’t force impact—I embody purpose.
This is the assignment. And I’m ready.”

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